There was a man sitting behind me this morning in black pants, gray shirt and sweater vest with his laptop and appointment book all set up. At first glance it looked like he was actually working. He was in a way. He was looking for jobs. But he gives the appearance that he already has one. I only found out the truth when a woman that he knew walked up and asked him what he was doing now since he had left. Well he then said he would give her the three minute version which turned out to be the 30 minute version. He sells insurance and is between companies. Medical sales is also something he has done as well. Sales. Not good.
I worked in the past in an office for an insurance company as an admin/support type person. I was in the HR department, recruiting specifically. The majority of the men and women who came in looking for sales jobs had no other alternative. For some reason they were unable to get jobs in other fields whether it be from past arrests, legal issues, severe financial issues, the inability to pass a background check or they had done something that made them on the black list from a past employer. The people I saw were the dregs of the employment world. There were a few who genuinely liked sales and had been in the field for a long time. They really were the few.
The man behind me had been looking for a long time an was trying to line up interviews this week with other insurance companies. It is hard out there and I know he is trying. He is and has been apparently looking relentlessly for work. I hope he finds it. He is a poser and I have seen many other posers like him too. It is hard. If you are used to getting dressed for work, looking the professional everyday, I guess it would still help to stay in that mode.
I guess I used to be a poser. I used to get up and get dressed when I first was laid off, then I stopped. No need. My focus became to look the part when I needed to...when networking, going to job fairs and going on interviews. Casual is my dress at my local coffee shops and book stores now. Looking for work does not mean that I have to look like my office is now the book stores. When I stopped being a poser some of the anxiety and stress left me. It is stressful enough being without work and looking constantly. The strain of keeping up a public image was just an unneeded worry.